Questions regarding INFP closest friend (other intercourse)

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This might be a discussion on concerns regarding INFP friend that is best (opposite gender) in the INFP Forum – The Idealists discussion boards, area of the NF’s Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; we’m an INTJ man. Perchance you dudes may help me realize my feminine INFP closest friend better. I want to first.


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  • Concerns regarding INFP friend that is best (opposite gender). We’m an INTJ man. Perhaps you guys may help me comprehend my feminine INFP friend that is best better.

    Allow me first say that i really like her dearly as my pal. Her character fits David Keirsey’s INFP description very nearly towards the page. Her, 9 years ago, I didn’t know about personality types but I felt that her mind had a wonderful warmth and deepness, that she could share emotions with an intensity that I hadn’t felt before but that her irrationality could make me go crazy when I first met. Even with 9 years she actually is nevertheless a huge, wonderful secret in my experience and unravelling its secrets will likely be a job for the remainder of my entire life. If I do not get nuts before that. BTW before anyone asks why WE would not be a couple, we currently was at an LTR whenever I came across her and I also’m still into the same LTR whilst still being pleased with it. Therefore also though we’d a serious crush for each other a long time ago our company is close friends and that is that.

    Within the 9 years i have known her she’s got dropped deeply in love with (or has already established a severe crush on) 8 various dudes. Many of them weren’t available (including myself), with the rest she has had relationships that lasted from two months to 1 1/2 years. Virtually every time she fell deeply in love with someone she explained just exactly how this guy is really special and differing from all of the sleep and exactly how she seems as if she’d already know just him for quite some time etc. She appeared to be always utterly and entirely in love and place this option (often IMO rather normal guys. To place it averagely) on a pedestal. Nonetheless following a relationship is finished (regardless of if she finished it or even the man) she is constantly belittling the necessity of this relationship to her. She is saying such things as “we did not simply take this relationship really severe anyhow. ” Okay, i realize it really is a protection device but it is found by me it. Dare i personally use the term in this forum. “naive” to ALWAYS get into the exact same trap, to praise a man as then putting him down when he broke up with her a few months later if he was the big love of her life after knowing him for 6 weeks and. Additionally I wonder why she does not appear to feel “ashamed” at all to at first constantly speak about this business as though these were send straight straight down from paradise and simply a few weeks/months later make use of the “he was not that great anyhow” routine. Is it typical for INFPs?

    What about you dudes?

    Can you additionally fall in love therefore easily? Can you additionally feel EACH TIME that this time around oahu is the big love of your life?

    Never you’re feeling ridiculous as a result of it following the fifth or time that is 6th? Do not you begin to become more cautious at the beginning of the relationship? Would you additionally constantly belittle your emotions following the relationship is finished?

    And yet another thing: would you also imagine being madly in deep love with someone and also at the exact same time having an extremely close, instead intimate (but non-sexual) relationship with someone through the contrary intercourse (or of the identical intercourse if you should be homosexual)? Often this indicates become very puzzling to her, it offers produced a lot of psychological turbulences over time and then we’ve had times whenever certainly one of us or both required some distance but that never lasted longer than the usual 14 days.